My Grandparents. That picture above shows my grandparents on my mother side. Here’s my grandfather with his sister:
My dad was not able to get a decent picture of my grandmother on his side, probably because phones with cameras are still expensive that time and that’s the only picture I can get now… 😦
All of my grandparents have gone to God’s place already. My Granpa on Mom’s side, I called him “Tatay”, went first. Then I think it was my Grandma on Dad’s side, “Lola Tilde” that went to God’s place, followed by “Nanay”, my GrandMa on Mom’s side and finally “Lolo Amboy”, my GrandPa on Dad’s side. I love them so much. It just makes me so sad that I only get to spend a little time with them, especially my grandparents on Dad’s side. Lolo Amboy and Lola Tilde were not speaking tagalog or at least Lola Tilde was speaking. As far as I can remember, I only met them two or three times because they lived in Ilo-ilo and we’re not visiting that place frequently because of transportation costs. My Lolo Amboy even left me a gift, an additional line on my pointer finger on my left hand which, as they say in Ilo-ilo, makes dogs polite when you come to them, even if they are so fierce and so angry. Lola Tilde made me learn how to be tough. I heard from my Dad that it was Lola Tilde that tamed my Lolo before. 😀 hahahah~! and she was also the toughest person I’ve ever seen as she struggled to be alive despite her ulcer that eventually took her life. I learned that no matter how things may be pessimitic, you should still have patience and hope and that reflects on my dad now and I wanted to follow that. Although I did not know them because I was not able to meet them frequently, my Dad as well as his siblings kept telling stories that inspire me and followed their style of living and attitude in life.
My grandparents on Mom’s side make me cry more. They shaped probably 20-50% of my life now. They would struggle to get enough money for bus fare and travel to Manila from La Union (Ilocos region) just to see how we’re doing here. It was my grandmother who solved the mystery of my several fevers that doctors cannot tell the cause. They taught me the know-how of public markets, practicality and simplicity in life. They showed me how to be meticulous on things, that’s why I got over that ridiculous fever of mine during childhood.
All my grandparents contributed a lot in my life and that’s why I was saddened that they have to go at an early time of my life. I wish they were still here so that I can ask them more about what to do in difficult situations, tell me more practical stuff and amazing things that no one will ever see in this busy world of technology. I wish they were now. I love them so much and I will cherish all of the building blocks they gave me. 😦
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